Get Tips on Fixing a Broken Relationship

When it comes to useful tips on fixing a broken relationship one of the things we hear all the time is that couples need to work on how they communicate. That may sound weird to a lot of people, they may think: we talk all the time. But talking and communicating may not be the same thing. It's important that you both learn how to listen to the other person too. But even this isn't enough, since it's very easy to hear what you want to hear and not what is being said. It's also easy for the person who is talking to not express themselves clearly which can open the door to misunderstandings. For all these reasons, and the myriad of ways your communication can go awry (without either of your realizing what is going on) it's often best to get an outside source to help the two of you learn better ways of communicating. This outside source can be a trained therapist who can teach you new techniques and allow you to 'practice' on new and better ways of expressing yourself and hearing what the other person is really saying. Again, this may sound weird, but think about it for a minute. Haven't you ever had an occasion where you were talking to your partner and you asked them if they wanted to do something and they said 'yes', but you could tell by their tone, the way they held their head, or other body language cues that the real answer was 'no'? I know that happens all the time with me and my partner, and I'll bet you can remember it happening to you too, if you try. This is a classic example of poor communicating. In this case I'm not hearing what they say but I'm hearing what they mean, they are the ones who aren't clearly communicating what they really want. This is a small and unimportant example, but what do you think happens in relationships when this type of miscommunication happens all the time, with big important subjects as well as small inconsequential things? That's why most couples who want to work on their relationship need to target their communication skills first. If you and your partner aren't comfortable with (or don't have the money for) talking to a therapist, there are many wonderful self help books around that can help you fix the problems in your relationship. You can easily get some online, and many of them are sold as ebooks so you can download them immediately. You can also go to your local library and get them for free, or your local bookstore. The choice is yours, but it's nice to have a choice! If you want to work on your relationship I highly recommend you start with these tips on fixing a broken relationship since communication (or lack thereof) is one of the biggest problems any couple will face and it's often tough to spot or even realize that's what the problem is. Save Your Relationship with the 21 Basic Laws Of Successful Relationships.Click Here!