Saturday, July 10, 2010
Signs of a Cheater - How to Know If Your Partner is Being Unfaithful With You
Cheating seems to be something that is happening more and more as time passes by. It has almost become a trend. You are part of the norm if you or someone else has cheated. Unfortunately it has caused a whirlwind of devastating results, and it seems that there is more hurt, conflict and dysfunction going around then ever before. Cheating isn't just a sexual thing. It can be done in the form of satisfying emotional needs. Just through friendship, if your partner seeks emotional fulfillment through another person this is just as much cheating as connecting physically. Whatever your case may be, it is important to know if your partner is being unfaithful to you. Here are the following signs.
Signs Of An Intimate Encounter-
This is the most easiest to identify. If your partner frequently leaves the room to answer calls, distances themselves from you regularly, if they are more confrontational and irritable than usual, or if they have a peculiar odor. Know that any of these are possible signs that your partner is being unfaithful. You need to look into this more carefully, and you can do so by becoming very inquisitive with them. Ask them a lot of questions and make it clear that you are on to something. They will probably avoid answering, by making a lot of excuses or constantly changing the subject. You should not let this go unexamined. Take all the measures possible to get to the bottom of this.
Look For Hints Of Intimate Conversation-
This can take form in the way of texting, emails, phone calls at weird hours, cyberchatting, letters. This requires some detective work to determine whether in fact your partner is engaging in one of these cheating activities. The good thing is that you have technology on your side. There are a variety of tools available to take all the guesswork out of any means of communication that uses electronics.
For cell phones, you have "phone detective" which gathers all deleted messages, numbers, contacts, etc. You can use this to figure out whether or not your partner had any intimate call behind your back.
You can use "message logging software" for you computer which records all activities that take place on it. If your partner is having late night chat sessions, or webcam chats, you will have access to all of their activities, through the software.
And the most simple easy-to-use program is the "reverse phone lookout" All you have to do here is enter the number of the person you suspect, and you will have all the personal information for this number.
Now That You Have All The Tools-
You will be able to get to the bottom of this now. If in fact they are cheating, don't let it bring you down. Your partner should be pitied for doing things in such a uncaring, deceptive way. They have obviously no standards, and this is not your problem to worry about.
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