How to Make Money Online Without a Website

If you've got some successful keyword research and PPC advertising under your belt for your own website, why not capitalize on that and make money online without one? Affiliate marketing through pay-per-click makes it possible. MSN adCenter and Yahoo Search Marketing both allow direct linking to sites that are not your own. (But don't try this with Google AdWords.) Direct linking means that you can join affiliate programs, create ads for their products, and send click-throughs directly to the merchant's site. There's no need to build an intermediary site or use your own site to direct traffic. When your click-throughs convert, you get a commission. It's a way to create an extra stream of income--or several--with some big advantages: * It eliminates the time, effort, and costs of building and maintaining web pages. The only time you'll have to pay is when someone clicks on your ad. * It allows you to do affiliate marketing without cluttering up your own site with links that might send potential customers away. You can keep your site clean and focused on its job of selling your product, but still make commissions off other people's products. * It eliminates an extra click for users. One click less for them means more commissions for you. While direct linking is a good opportunity, though, it's not a walk in the park. The PPC programs that allow it restrict the number of affiliate ads that can point at the same display URL that shows on the ad itself. So ads by experienced affiliate marketers who know exactly what they're doing can bump less skillful ads. If you want your ads to be seen, here's what you have to do. Step 1: Start with a big, broad market Choose a broad market where there's a lot of searching going on. You want to get as many eyeballs as possible. Step 2: Do some keyword research Don't build your ads on broad, untargeted keywords, though. The competition for those will be fierce--and expensive. Your objective here is to find neglected, low-cost keywords within a broad, high-traffic market--and that's why it really helps to have keyword research experience. And as I mentioned in an earlier article, you need to look for specific problems that are shared by a lot of people within a market. Then find relevant keyword terms that clearly show a clear intention to buy or find out more information. Those terms are much more likely to convert. And remember, you pay for every click, but you get paid only when they convert. The Microsoft Advertising Intelligence tool can show you almost anything you'd like to know about any given keyword, including similar keywords, traffic, cost per click, and much more. The free Google AdWords Keyword Tool is also a quick and handy way of getting ideas for keywords with high search volume and low cost per click; just keep in mind that you can't use this strategy with Google. Step 3: Find a good affiliate merchant that targets your niche In order to find a merchant that offers a relevant product and pays you a good commission, check out these affiliate networks and directories: * www.associateprograms.com * www.affiliatesdirectory.com * www.ecommerce-guide.com * www.cj.com * www.clickxchange.com * www.linkshare.com When you're choosing affiliate merchants, ask these questions: 1. Do they offer a product that directly solves a problem you've identified? 2. Do they allow direct linking to their sites? Some don't. Check the terms and conditions before you commit. 3. Does the landing page generate pop-ups? If so, then forget it. This is not allowed. The back button on the page also has to be functional. 4. Is there a strong landing page for the product? If you send click-throughs to an irrelevant page, a confusing sales process, or a site that's just plain unappealing, then they won't convert and you'll end up wasting your money. Step 4: Write a PPC ad that drives buyers to the affiliate merchant's site Take a good look at the landing page your ad is pointing at and make your ad directly relevant to it. Your ad must: * address the specific problem you've identified. * include the keyword you've bid on, preferably more than once. * reflect the keywords of the landing page. * highlight a benefit of the product. * include a strong call to action. You can give your ad an extra boost by adding your keyword, or part of it, to the display URL at the bottom of the ad. The actual target URL will contain a big, ugly affiliate ID number, but the display version can show the domain name plus a subdirectory with a word or phrase that makes it look relevant to the search, like this: Display: internetmarketing.com/affiliates_ppc Target: http://www.internetmarketing.com/aff-iduao74elksdjdo-2u023f Before you create your display link, check out the PPC competition to make sure it's unique so your ad won't be bumped. The better your ads, the higher the click-throughs will be, which means your ads will be rewarded with better positions for the same money. It's worth polishing them, and then testing them to see which ones are performing the best. Running a pay-per-click affiliate campaign probably won't generate hundreds of thousands of dollars for you right off the bat--but it is the easiest way to leverage the keyword research and PPC skills you've developed in building your own site. And when Microsoft adCenter and Yahoo Search Marketing join forces sometime this year, you'll get the traffic from both, even if you only advertise on one. That makes direct linking even more appealing. Allen Moon is Director of Marketing for the Internet Marketing Center. He leads a team of internet business experts who stay on top of the changing online landscape. They constantly research the latest approaches and test them on real commercial websites, then pass on their knowledge in easy-to-use, internet marketing tools, instruction materials, and training services.

Calculating Return on Investment: Pay-Per-Click Search

Paid search marketing can help increase your visibility online, but it’s important that you make sure your investment, both money and time, is paying off. Generally speaking, return on investment (ROI) is the profit made from the money spent -- whether it’s new technology, new equipment or a marketing campaign. Understanding how to calculate ROI can help owners determine whether an investment was a good choice and decide whether you need to adjust the amount of money dedicated to a specific initiative. In the world of paid search marketing, calculating your ROI can help you determine which ads and keywords to continue using, which ones to scrap and guide you in the development of future marketing campaigns. Because you probably sell multiple products and services and advertise each of them individually, you’ll need the following information for each of your products and PPC campaigns in order to calculate the ROI on your paid search investment: • Ad cost: The amount you spend on paid search campaigns, such as your spend on keyword bidding. • Clicks: This refers to the number of visits to your site from paid listings. • Number of Sales: The number of complete orders from paid listings. • Revenue: The dollar amount generated from paid listings for that product. Simple ROI Calculators Now that you have your information in hand, use these simple formulas to begin calculating: • Ad profit: Revenue minus ad cost • CPA (Cost Per Acquisition/Sale): Ad cost divided by number of sales • ROI: The percentage of ad profits divided by ad cost, multiplied by 100

Setting Customer Acquisition Goals

The price you pay to acquire each customer (CPA) is a great place to begin setting goals and controlling expenses. You can adjust your spending to delete search campaigns that aren’t working, forecast ROI before beginning a campaign or negotiate deals for fixed placement search engine programs. The easiest way to determine what you should be spending is to start with your retail price. If you sell t-shirts for $15 and spend an additional $15 on advertising, you need to sell one shirt to break even. Fifteen dollars becomes your customer acquisition cost maximum. Because you probably want to do better than break even, you’ll want to lower your acquisition cost — perhaps to $12 per customer. When determining what you’re willing to pay per customer, also consider the lifetime value of customers (how many purchases they’ll make from you over the course of your business relationship) and your profit margin. Calculating ROI for product-based businesses is easier than for service-based companies. For owners selling services such as consulting, there is not always an immediate transaction associated with a tracked click-through. But, for instance, if you have succeeded in converting subscribers to your e-newsletter to clients for your services, you still want to set customer acquisition goals via the e-newsletter, set up pay-per click ads and track ROI.

Built-In ROI Calculators

The number of products and services that you sell, the number of places you advertise and the fluidity of the market can make determining ROI tricky. The good news is that most bid management programs on the market have click-through reports built into the software to help you get started. You can log on to check the number of times your site was listed in a search, the number of times a user clicked on your link and the charge for each keyword you are paying for. Click-through reports offer great insight but you’ll need to go into more depth to get the most from your investment. ROI tracking systems can monitor your sales data by search engine, product and campaign components. Programs like Yahoo! Search Marketing’s (formerly Overture) Marketing Console and Search Optimizer monitor how many searchers’ PPC-enabled clicks lead to actual sales — this will be very important information to have when you decide which paid search campaigns to continue and which to cancel. Usually, these programs take an aggregate of what you have paid for each click, factor in the traffic or site visitors, deduct any traffic not directly associated with the PPC investment and compare this number with the overall profit margin achieved through online activity. This makes it is easier to determine which keywords and search engines are giving you the most for your money. Monitoring your paid search efforts and tracking your results will help ensure that you spend your marketing dollars wisely.

Ways to Earn Money Blogging

Earning money through blogging is quite easy and very rewarding. You just need a bit of patience and a little know how in order to set up the blog ready to earn money. But remember that every advertiser you are working for is not just giving away money, they want something in return for paying you. This is either a share of your traffic or a share of your Page Rank. Getting Started So, how do you get started? Well read our series on setting up a blog if you need any help at all, or get in contact and we can set you a blog up for just £20 / $35 per year. Once your blog is live you need to work on it to make sure that it is producing what advertisers will want to buy from you. Selling Optimisation For those interested in optimising their own website, they will be looking for blogs with plenty of backlinks and a good Page Rank. Article writing, guest posting, commenting and other tricks are all useful here. Again, read our starting a blog series if you need more help. Selling Traffic For advertisers wanting to spread the word of their site, or to create a buzz as it is often referred to, then they want blogs with plenty of traffic. The same tricks work as for Page Rank, but more targeted work is needed. Then commenting on forums and various other tricks, maybe even paid advertising, work well. Again, our series tells you more. Earning Money After that you need to find ways to earn money with your blog. Sponsored Posting, Pay Per Click advertising, banner advertising, affiliate work and a lot more tricks are possible. Certain methods work best for high Page Rank blogs whilst others work best with high traffic blogs. All will work well if you manage to get both traffic and Page Rank and Sponsored Posting works well on either, you just need to know which systems to sign up for. The last way to earn money through blogging is simply by selling it, or by blog flipping. It seems extreme to sell your work, but that is what some people enjoy and if you are made a fantastic offer, then why not! Anyway, if you are looking for any help on any of these aspects do browse around this blog carefully and read through the series on starting blogging. Sign up for our RSS Feed or join the newsletter and keep up to date with the latest posts. Happy blogging!

Be Confident without Being Offensive

The word confidence has several nuances. When you have faith in a person or something, that is confidence; when you believe in your capabilities, that is self-confidence. But when you believe too much in the capability of persons or things, that is overconfidence. People always associate confidence with success. People who succeed have displayed self assurance. They can talk in front of a crowd without cringing inwardly or becoming speechless with fright. The can talk to their bosses without stuttering. They believe they can do a project without much supervision. They don't get scared easily and can react with calm and composure in any upsetting situations. Being confident does not mean you have to brash and offensive. It simply means you can sail into any situation without having agonizing seizures of insecurities. Having confidence is separate from having self-esteem; it is about capability of doing something with panache. Self-esteem has something to do with valuing the self. Have you ever wondered how some people can speak to an audience with ease? They do not only go through the process with such infuriating calm but they can also get people to accept their ideas. Confidence is not inborn. It is a result of constant practice and effort. There are several ways to have that kind of self-composure. First keep physically and mentally fit. The mind and body jive is vital to develop positive thoughts. Listen to the way you talk to yourself. Do you always say I can't do it or do you hear your self saying I want to do it? Repackage your self. Have a new hairstyle or hair color. You may also want to join fitness program. Maybe you need a change of career, make new friends, and even list your good traits. This will rev up your positive feeling about yourself. Knowing about what you really want helps you get an edge over others. Knowing how to get what you desire is also another weapon in your arsenal. Observing people can give you some useful tips. There are really so many things you can do to help yourself gain a level of confidence. But if you feel you can't do it alone, you can get professional help from licensed hypnotherapists. They will help you re-channel thoughts in your subconscious mind. Perhaps you would like to undergo self-hypnotherapy. This can be done in the privacy of your home.

Some Things to Consider when Buying a Puppy

So you have decided to buy a dog for your family you are wondering what breed is right for you. That's great! Now you just need to carefully decide what kind of dog will be the best fit for you and your family. The most important considerations is the size and the amount of grooming they will need, but there are many other things to consider. Different breeds also have different needs. So do families. You need to honestly ask yourself how much time you have for a dog. How big is your garden? How much time do you have to spend with your dog? Will you have time to walk them regularly? Have them trained? Do you have very small children in the house? What will you do with the dog if you go away on vacation often? If you are sure you want a dog you need to think very carefully about what kind of breed will suit your family's needs. What kinds of things should you look for when choosing a breed and buying the dog? You should try to find out more about the breed before you get the dog. Try to read whatever you can about the breed you are thinking about choosing. It's really vital that you learn as much as you can about the breed you are intending to buy. Some dogs are more susceptible to different genetic disorders. Large dogs can suffer all kinds of problems. Their joints and bones are vulnerable. They are more susceptible to hip-displasia - a degenerative hip disease which can be painful and chronic. They take up much more room so you will need a large back yard for them to run; they need lots of exercise. If you are on a tighter budge you may want to consider a smaller dog because they do not eat as much. Smaller breeds have problems of their own. Little dogs with short noses (muzzles) are susceptible to breathing problems far more than their larger counterparts. This is because there is not as much space for the breathing organs to develop. You can't tell by looking at a puppy, whether they will have health problems later in life. Smaller breeds are prone to sinus and nasal problems. There are many other breeds with specific health risks associated. Grooming should be another consideration before you buy a dog. If you have the time to come your new Yorkshire Terrier or Maltese then by all means get this breed. They require daily combing of the hair however you can keep it short. The more self sufficient breeds would be the Boston Terrier or Pugs. They have such short hair that it needs very little maintenance. Ask dog breeders any questions before deciding and buying the dog. A professional dog breeder can tell you more about the specifics on the particular breed you are considering.

HOW TO MAKE MONEY FROM AFFILIATE E-BOOKS WITHOUT SELLING THEM

The standard way to make money from e-book is to sell them to our website visitors and our mailing list. But what if we don’t have many website visitors and don’t have a huge mailing list? How do we sell them? And is selling the e-book the only way to make money out of them? One way is to give them away. But how does that make money for me? You may ask. Let’s say, we have an e-book that required from someone else and we have full resale rights. Inside this e-book, there usually one or two (May be more) active links to the affiliate program that we got the e-book from. These links will be traceable to either the affiliate that sold or gave us the e-book or the owner of the Affiliate program. Now if we click on one of those links go to the affiliate program, find something we need and buy it! Who get commission for the sale? The person that gavel sold us the e-book! Now we can just sell the e-book and make a few dollars but if we want more money, we have to sell more e-books right? The answer is yes and no. let’s look at us selling more e-book first, we sell more and make a little bit more money, those e-books are going to go out to more people, which might click on the link in it, when they do, who gets the commission on sale? The answer is , the affiliate who gavel sold us the e-book it’s plain to see who is leveraging and earning more money for less effort. So what we do is become an affiliate! then go about the business of giving our e-books away to as many people as possible, who will the try to sell it to others who will in turn do the same etc. So this way, we are the ones using leverage and making more money! But wait a minute! Why would anyone want to do that for us, wouldn’t they think like us and become an affiliate? The answer is YES! That’s the idea! Now, they join as an affiliate through us and put their affiliate URL in the e-book and then they promote as vigorously as we did! This is the ultimate goal for us! Because, they joined the affiliate program through us, they are now a “second tier” in our affiliate account. So now, not only do we get a large percentage in commission from anyone that buys something through our affiliate link in the e-books we promote but we also get a small percentage for any sales generated by our second tier! This can go on and on depending on the particular affiliate program , but it’s plain top see the “viral effect” this would have on our affiliate link. Many people will be willing to add our e-book to their emailing list as a way of adding value to their customers, if it’s free then why not! This will send our links all over the planet, along with the steps outlined above. This is one way that e-books can be used to make money there are many, many other ways, so we should always think about other ways and means to leverage our efforts this is the secret to successful marketing. When you have money working for you, it doesn’t matter if you get paid off or you lose your job it doesn’t really matter what happens in the economy when you have money working for you. Very few things can ever affect your life and determine your ultimate success. It’s really a simple process when you have money working for you it’s not rocket science. It’s really a simple process when you have money working for you. It’s not rocket science. It is a very simple matter of having your assets outweighs your living expenses. When the money that you’ve earning from your investments and business are in excess of what it costs you to live then money is working for you. First, identify and execute a realistic and attainable spending plan your life because you can not begin to have money work for you if all you do is continue to open everything you earn. The world economic system doesn’t want you to have money work for you. It wants you to continue to be dependent on it

Anger Management and the Power of Self Help

People that get angered easily may need some effective means to control themselves and may thus need to look for a proper anger management technique that will answer to their needs to control them in situations that often gets well out of hand. With people having serious instances of anger management requirements the good news is that a number of different techniques with regard to self help anger management are available to fight off this condition. Counseling From Therapists - Among the many self help anger management techniques available is the one that requires taking counseling from therapists, and there are also very many books written on the subject to enable a person to utilize the knowledge gained by reading such literature on the subject and create their own self help anger management techniques that will work well for them. There is also anger management courses which is a means very often used by people that wish to get more in-depth help from experts regarding controlling their anger, and it also affords those suffering from anger to interact with fellow sufferers and thus can gain valuable insights as to how self help will make them overcome such problems and so should incorporate such techniques in order to bring their anger under control. Self help also means the sufferer is able to avail of support as well as understanding from others, and in this regard family members are the persons the sufferer must need to turn to when requiring the necessary understanding and support and once given, also helps ensure that the situation is not further aggravated. Also, anger management problems are not just confined to adults; but, can affect children as well and it is not uncommon for children that behave well to also be affected by anger that was not evident earlier. It is up to the parents to provide the child with proper guidance and should expend their energies to help in contributing to the child learning self help anger management techniques and so, overcome the behavioral problems. It is also common for sufferers to find self help from other resources besides their parents, and taking to performing yoga as well as meditation is just one instance of how a self help anger management technique can help overcome the problem. Other methods for self help include reading up books as well as listening to audio books on the subject, and with a few more available alternatives, it is possible for the sufferer to find an ideal method of self help to help get rid of the problem of anger.

Love and Relationships

Are you in a committed healthy romantic relationship that's very good for not only you, but equally for the person you love. Love and relationships are to become made for ever, not only a few days. Take a look into getting your life much more enjoyable and purposeful by realizing how to act when it comes to those you care most for. The greatest thing to do in a romantic relationship is to care for the other person´s needs ahead of your own. Being selfless is the core of what love is all about. If you're having issues with selfishness you need to deal with them successfully ahead of coming into a marriage or other serious personal relationship. Why pull another individual into your issues? In the event you really desire to help them, you'll need to put them before yourself. This suggests sacrifice. Selfish individuals aren't prepared to make sacrifices for other people. If you're this way, save the individual you claim to adore the painfulness of finding out. An additional significant factor of love and relationships will be the neglected virtue of commitment. Society tends to make it difficult for a guy and a lady to maintain the dedication of holy matrimony. Within the United states of america one is actually compelled to fork out much more taxes should you be married than should you just stay together. But what does "staying together" tell society? It tells the world you desire the pleasures and advantages of matrimony with no dedication. Again, this really is selfish. Don't forget; love isn't self-centered. Do the right thing. In case you genuinely would like to live for a partner, make an open public commitment of holy matrimony and get the advantages of a clear conscience as well. For anyone who is seeking to become married to end your being lonely, this is a self-centered reason. Are you going into a marriage to help make yourself happier? How many individuals are doing this very thing and rendering their lives and the lives of others unpleasant during the process? Love and relationships are created to be mutually satisfying to both persons. If one side starts to have unrealistic expectations, it could be a ticking time bomb of feelings. What will happen when both parties have unrealistic expectations? This really is a formula for failure. When coming into critical personal romantic relationships, it can be very good to have wide open communication channels. You ought to discuss all the expectations you might have plus the other half must do likewise. The word "all" is emphasized in that previous sentence. Money, sex, the long term, kids and any other important topic should be brought out in to the discussion and frankly pointed out. Getting transparent and sincere may be the greatest policy in romance. Love and relationships are to be held in high esteem when they're seen within the bonds of marriage. This partnership will be the bonding fabric of humankind. In case you mess it up, you aren't doing anybody a favour. About three of five marriages in the Usa are faltering, according to available data. Do not be a contributor of this break down of the social structure. In case you are not one to keep your word, especially in marriage, it's best to keep out of the romantic relationship. Get your life in order. Grow to be the person that others can model their existence around. Later on, enter into a meaningful romantic relationship that makes the other person the object of importance. Be selfless and become happy. Read more: http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/love-and-relationships-2227996.html#ixzz0tkicgvui Under Creative Commons License: Attribution

Little-known Plans to Extend the Life of Your Hard Drive

Maximizing the life of your hard drive If I asked you the question: which part of your computer is the most fragile, what would you say? What if I asked: which part is most important to you? Often, the answer to both of these questions is your Hard Drive. Your hard drive is likely one the most important things you own. It contains work data, school data, emails, photos, music, movies, tax information, etc... Incidentally, the hard drive is also one of only two moving components in your computer (the other being your optical drive). The following is a list of important maintenance and monitoring techniques you can use to maximize the life of your hard drive and prevent data loss. Hard drives are physically fragile - handle with care Statistics show that 25% of lost data is due to a failure of a portable drive. (Source: 2001 Cost of Downtime Survey Results) Contrary to its seemingly rugged appearance, your hard disk is a very delicate device that writes and reads data using microscopic magnetic particles. Any vibration, shock, and other careless operation may damage your drive and cause or contribute to the possibility of a failure. This is especially relevant for notebook users, as they are most at risk of drive failure due to physical damage, theft, and other causes beyond their control. That's why we recommend regular backup of notebook hard drives, as often as possible. Possible solutions include external USB or Firewire drives (although these are prone to the same risks), desktop synchronization, or backup at a data center through the web. Hard drives write data in a non-linear way forcing it to become fragmented. When files accumulate on your hard drive, they do not just get written in a linear fashion. A hard drive writes files in small pieces and scatters them over the surface. The fuller your hard drive becomes and the more files you save and delete the worse file fragmentation can be. Hard drive access times increase with fragmentation since your drive must work harder to find all the pieces of the files. The more fragmented your data is, the harder the actuator arm has to work to find each piece of a file. A case in point: Disk fragmentation is a common problem for users of Outlook Express and database software. Each time outlook saves new mail, it does so in a different physical location from the previous time. This results in extreme fragmentation, causing longer hard drive access times and forcing more strain on the heads. This strain can eventually lead to a head crash, and often that means a virtually unrecoverable drive.Finally, in the event of a total crash, a fragmented drive is much more difficult to recover then a healthy defragged drive. Luckily, Windows makes it remarkably easy to defrag your hard drive, simply launch the Disk Defragmenter utility (Start > Programs > Accessories > System Tools), choose which disk or partition you'd like to defragment and set it to work overnight or while you are not actively using your computer. Defragmentation will speed up your computer and ensure a longer life for your hard drive. A very small power surge can fry a hard drive - use a UPS and turn off your computer when you can Another little-known fact about the fragility of your hard drive is its susceptibility to electrical failure. An electrical failure can be caused by a power surge, lightening strikes, power brown-outs, incorrect wiring, a faulty or old power supply, and many other factors. If a power surge enters your computer, it may do an unpredictable amount of damage, including destroying your hard drive's electronics or crashing the heads and possibly resulting in total data loss. The best way to protect your computer from such dangers is to use a highly rated protected power bar or an Uninterruptible Power Supply (UPS). Although these devices won't eliminate the chances of a crash, they will serve as effective protection in most cases. Also, you can minimize the danger of an electrical problem and reduce wear of your hard drive by turning off your computer or using power-save modes whenever possible. It's a known fact that 100% of drives fail, the question is when will it happen and will you be prepared? Make sure to check out the knowledgebase section of our website for more detailed information on how electrical power affects your computer. Be SMART, monitor the health of your drive to prevent unexpected crashes All modern hard drives have a self-monitoring technology called SMART (Self Monitoring Analysis & Reporting Technology). What most people don't realize is that the majority of hard drive failures do not have to be unexpected. Most failures occur as a result of long-term problems which can be predicted. By regularly monitoring disk health and performance, you can know about potential hard drive problems before you lose any of your data. Several excellent utilities are available, including DiskView and Stellar SMART for standard IDE and SATA desktop drives. Also available are tools that monitor the health of SCSI drives and full RAID Array systems. Ariolic Software offers a great utility called ActiveSMART. The only fool-proof way to prevent data loss is... Backup! If you only take one of the suggestions here to heart, let it be this one: always back up your important data. After all the monitoring and all the prevention measures are in place, one fact still remains: all hard drives fail. Backing up regularly will ensure that you're never caught without your critical data. For individuals, the simplest solutions include external portable hard drives, dvd's, and online storage. For businesses, we recommend renting space at a secure data centre and implementing a disaster recovery plan, regardless of the size of your business. I hope that the above techniques give you some idea of the importance of hard drive maintenance and provide some insights in how you can protect yourself from data loss.

COMMUNICATION, THE HEART OF EVERY RELATIONSHIP

Lying there with her on the bed, I was carefully searching for the right word and waiting for the time to tell her I wanted the relationship to end. I had endured the low moment in our one-year relationship. The misunderstandings, the give-me-sex now issue, the financial pressure, the fashion craze, the open-your-mouth-and-talk quarrels, and the very ward attitude of her family members. When you are angry with a situation, you grab every opportunity to do what you want. I was just looking for the right words to nail it. My girlfriend had once been an immaculate, faultless angel in my eyes. Tall, slim dark, curvy, perfect waist, full lips pointed nose and lovely eyes. She was everything I’d ever wanted. The early days in our lasting had brought me a new lease on life and romance. At some point, things had started going wrong; the attraction was dwindling fast because the pain in my heart was becoming unbearable. I was sex-starred. I had told her wanted her more often because it would be wrong to cheat on her. It was an ideal she welcomed. However, despite our new agreement, she was still not responding. I felt she being cruel and inconsiderate. I even searched the web to find out why a woman would not want sex often. The most annoying part was that when I wanted to talk things out, she would not talk. I started using certain names and adjectives on her and finally blurted out, ” I am the opinion that we gives ourselves some time”. She asked me if that was the best option. I said yes. In anger, I grabbed her cell phone, started looking in the sent folder and saw a message that was meant for me. It was a reply to one of mine but had not been delivered possibly because of network failure. It read:”…. I am tired of these relationship wahala. You should not be the only complaining of been in stared. I am too. The problem I have is the pain I am left with after each time we make love. I should have told you before now…” I ask her what it meant and she told me she was not comfortable with my favorite sex position, on hearing that, I immediately felt guilty but calm. I had been the cause of the problem. I blamed myself for failing to master the art of listening. Simply put, neither of us had learnt to communicate properly with one anther. Problems in a relationship are usually called by miscommunication. If verbal communication does not do the trick, it is our duty to find out which style of communication would work. It could be written body language. You have to find out which one is best. Save your love. Save your relationship. Learn to talk, learn to listen. Listen to communicate. Devise a means by which to do so. It is an integral part of love making. It is an art. Something is unspoken. Listen for it. I came so close to blowing our relationship. I had not been through enough or skilled enough to know my lady. Thank goodness the situation was rescued.

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How to Promote Affiliate Marketing Network

This article provides some basic information to new affiliate marketing entrants. In fact, there is no secret to success in affiliate market except ‘hard work’. The points mentioned below might look you familiar at first sight, however I recommend you to go through them and you will certainly find some secrets lying in between the lines there. Selection: Considering the wide range of available options, people often wonder what they should start their affiliate marketing business with. The best thing is to go with is what you know best. Choosing a field of your knowledge would make it easy for you to convince others to join in and increase your commission. Likewise, it would not be difficult to design and manage a site in the same area of your expertise. Otherwise, if you are dealing with something which you do not have interest in or do not know a log about, it may turn boring soon and you would feel forced to give up. So the mantra is ‘stick to what you know best’. Advertise wisely: promoting your topics on your site is one thing and forcing it to your visitors is another. But, generally people fail to differentiate between two and force their visitors run away without making a hit. Do not post too many banners and ads on the pages that hamper easy browsing through your site. Try to answer what the visitor is exactly looking for in stead. It will increase reliability of your contents and thereby yours too. Serve Variety: Simply promoting a single merchant on your website mask you as biased before visitors and they would shun it in response. Represent at least 3-4 merchants on a topic in stead. This would give your visitors a variety to choose from and compare the benefits without going away from your site. Content sites: Creating a ‘content-site’ is the buzz word among affiliate marketing forums. What it denotes to is a site with sufficient information on the topic. These site promote the main product as a side business and serve visitors with free and fair information on topics. The text should be drafted in away that inspire readers to buy the product and ads should be placed accordingly. Work on it: generally affiliate marketing is advertised as no-work and high-return business ventures which it is not in fact. At least initially, you will need to put in extensive efforts to push it up. Be it a website design, content creation, promotions or something else, this all require earnest efforts from your part. It might take you a long time to reach break-even point, so perseverance and patience are the key element. In case you are not very well acquainted with the job, ask for direction. There are online affiliate marketing tutorials and coaching programs that help affiliate markers to form win-win strategies. Once you have learnt the art and know the success rules. It is easy to multiply your earnings. Add more products and follow the suite.

China Gadgets Are the Best if You Want to Invest

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How to Maximize Your Time Use by Determining Your Priorities

What you may consider a priority might not be to another person. Conversely, other people's priorities might not be a priority to you. It doesn't mean though that you can't have similar priorities. What are the most common priorities of the majority of people? Here is a list of the most chosen priorities most people pursue, with a suggestion or two on how to actively materialize them. Yours might not be in the list but the idea remains the same - to pursue them in the most convenient way in order to maximize time use. Oh, a word of caution: too many priorities are not all priorities. So define which ones are and focus only on them, not on all of them. Most people value family as their first priority. If the president's family is called the first family; for most, the family is first. Spending (rather investing) time with your family will strengthen bondage between members. But quantity time is not as important as quality time. Well, if you can inject quantity to quality, so much the better. To be in front of a television set may or may not be quality time. Quality is lost if concentration of each member is glued on the feature in the television set. Some discussion or reaction between family members regarding the feature could lend some quality on time. An intellectual board game may be better. A day trip as a family gets together on a weekend once or twice a month is ideal. Thoughtfulness shown by sending cards or flowers during occasions (better yet when there are no occasions) lifts the relationship between spouses. Health is wealth, as we all know. Your wealth is useless if you have poor health. It is more difficult (although not impossible) to get good health without wealth (even a modest one), so the two are somewhat intertwined. Just follow good eating habits, exercise regularly, and take things in moderation. Not only do you get good health if you exercise with your family (say biking or swimming together with your kids), you develop good family relationship too. Who knows, your kid might be a future professional athlete. Hidden talents are usually discovered by accident. A lot of people consider gathering wealth as part of their priority list, but not to the extent of sacrificing family relationship. While you keep an eye on creating wealth, keep the other eye on your family relationships. Herds of stories about broken families are due to money matters; don't be a part of it. To create wealth, foremost is to live within your means. No matter how small savings are, it is never too small. Savings go to investing. Investing leads to security, financially speaking. We're not talking about hasty investing, but intelligent, calculated investing. Remember that wealth does not come instantly (except the lotto or anything similar). It takes a life long goal to be financially secured. If you'll check the historical background of known wealthy people, most of them got wealthy gradually and slowly. It's like building an edifice; it doesn't rise overnight. It is also common knowledge that hard-earned money stays. Wealth that comes easy, goes easy. Going back to investing, you can invest your hard-earned savings into bonds or trust funds that yield higher interest. Shop and ask around. There are financial planners that can help you get started and going. Just be prudent, alert, and open-minded. If your priority is in career building, specialization is a key factor. To excel in your chosen career means to gather as much knowledge as possible to sustain growth. This ultimately makes you an expert or specialist. To remain as one, you must always be updated of the latest trends and developments. Your world may be narrow, but well-defined. You may need to attend conferences and seminars of your chosen field of expertise. You may also need to read current publications to stay in touch with what's going on out there, even to the point that you have to go back to school for post graduate studies. For some, intellectual growth amazes and interests them. Somehow, this kind of priority can be transferred to future generations. It's like wealth that does not get lost no matter what. One good source of growing intellectually is by traveling. Getting to know cultures you're not familiar with is made familiar by going to where the action is and experiencing it first hand. Read books, especially those related to historical backgrounds so you'll know how things evolve in time. Many people also prioritize spiritual growth. To start with, let your emotions be filled with your belief that a Higher Being is responsible for your existence on earth. Give praise, embrace, and acknowledge that you exist to be of service, not to yourself but to Him by means of helping those in need. Whatever your priorities are, you can have them as long as you focus your time on them.

How to Add Photos to Your Blog

A photo or an image in most cases can convey or explain more information about your blog than words can. Because they are visual the message they communicate is instant. If you want to include photos on your blog to promote new products or services you will need to be able to transform the photos into a blog ready artwork and display them on your blog quickly. How to get photos With the technology we have today this is very easy to do. The 3 most common ways are as follows: Traditional camera: Although these are not digital you can get digital images copied on to a CD Digital camera: If you can use one of these then you can probably upload digital images to your computer with no problem. Most digital cameras come with their own graphics software. Scanner: They are handy if you want to make copies of news paper cuttings or scans of photo prints. Flatbed scanners are now becoming less expensive and there are many printer models that already include a scanner. Photo formats When you have the photo or image up loaded to your computer you will need save it to a suitable web format. There are basically 2 web formats that you need to think about which are JPEGS and GIFS. These shortened acronyms are used to describe files that are compressed formats. Many consider that JPEGS are superior when it comes to working with images and photos especially if they contain lots of colors. Generally GIFS are considered better for images with big solid areas and limited color formation. The best way is to experiment with the two to see which one you prefer as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is another less well known format called PNG. It is not as widely used because it is not supported by all web browsers although, it is considered too have certain advantages over the other two digital formats. Size of photo The size of the photo or image is very important. Web images that are large in file size and display size will take more time to download. If the file or display size is too big some people can experience delays in downloading and viewing your blog. This is especially the case when you will be putting lots of images and photos onto your blog. Therefore, it is important that you keep them to a reasonable size that people can view your blog with ease.

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When it comes to popular internet activities there is nothing quite as popular nowadays as blogging. Blogging is quite simple to do and can be a very effective way for people to really get their message out to a wider audience. Many people have also found that blogging can be a good way to make money online too. The way to start this is to either create your own blog on your own website and then you need to host it on your server or you could simply go for a free blog from such places as Wordpress.com or blogger.com. If you choose the easier option then you may find that although blogger.com is easier for you to use that Wordpress.com can offer you a lot more control over your articles. Making money is as simple as writing your own article and making it as relevant as you can to something that you can sell online. For example if you are selling some health food you could write an article about health and link it to your product. Once your article is written you need to make sure that it is submitted to an article directory and posted on your blog at the same time. The links back to your site and the traffic form the directory will rank your site high in the search engines and this could get you more traffic and more traffic equals potential customers. As blogging is an interactive medium it means that others can place their comments on your blog. In the same way you could post comments on other blogs that you see. If the blog is relevant to your product you could make a comment and link it back to your blog. This can be another good way to attract potential customers. This means that by blogging and using article directories you can make money online. I have a Complete Guide To Learn How To Build Your Own Blogs, Drive Visitors And Create Wealth. Turn Your Blogs Into Cash-raking Assets That Will Work Hard For You Round The Clock. Instant Download.Click Here!

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You have set up your blog, you have posted well researched content and your blog looks cool. However, the only problem is that there are no visitors, and if you have there are probably only a few of them. Does this sound familiar to you? Long gone are the days that you could put together a blog or site throw it up on the web and instantly droves of people would fight tooth and nail to get at your content. Happy days. Today you got to work a little harder to get consistent traffic to your blog. Here are a few basic tips that you can begin to market your blog: Get a good domain name. You should have one already, if not, get one pronto and not any old name. The name is very important it represents you or your company therefore, take the time to get a good one. What I mean by a good one, is that it should be memorable and stick in people's minds. It should not be too long are complicated and should be easy to spell. Shorter web addresses make more impact on marketing and promotional materials and advertising. If you have a blog for a selected few that is fine however, if you are like most bloggers and you want to stretch your wings and reach as many people as possible then, you need to tell people about you and your blog exist. It is a crowded place out there in the blogosphere therefore, you need to shout to get yourself heard. There are many simple ways you can do this. For example, when sending emails include put blog address at the bottom of each email you can to do this by entering the details in the signature file. Think of every type of way you or your company communicate. This can include business cards, letter head paper, newsletters, posters and even invoices. You can also use traditional marketing advertising to promote and create awareness of your blog. This can involve printing the URL on promotional pens, baseball caps, T-shirts etc. If you have an advertising budget you can look at advertising in either local or national media to build blog brand awareness. This can include newspapers, magazines and radio. This can be done very cheaply or in certain situations it will not cost you anything at all. For example, local media such as town newsletters and media are always looking out for a news story or feature for the next print or spot. Build up good relations with these people and tell them about your blog and what you are trying to achieve. They should be more than happy to write up a feature in there next newsletter or radio spot. Click Here!

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So the person you love cheated. You are raging (!), you feel humiliated and played, and you probably want to murder the lying traitor. (I know; I've been there!) But now, what are you REALLY gonna do? When a betrayal happens TO you, it really happens FOR you. Betrayal signals that your relationship has been on shaky ground. You can either avoid this truth, or you can finally do something about it. You can choose to: 1. Become a "poor me" VICTIM. Depressing! 2. Become a vengeful FIGHTER. Exhausting! 3. Become a take-charge WINNER. Triumphant!! Betrayal can move you toward a richer future, IF YOU USE IT AS A TOOL FOR HEALING. BETRAYAL AS A TOOL FOR HEALING involves 10 Must-Knows: 1. YOU MUST KNOW the definition of a cheataholic: cheataholic, n. 1. Sl. love junkie. 2. person addicted to hidden passions, secret flirtations, and illicit romances behind the back of an unsuspecting partner. 3. Biochem. person who repeatedly seeks the rush of exhilaration that accompanies falling in love. 2. YOU MUST KNOW that cheataholics are not motivated by sex alone. They are your average Jack or Jill who entered a committed union with the best of intentions. Acknowledging that the thrill is gone, they are now terrified that they no longer are appealing. They are so desperate to prove their (sexual) worth, they put their own needs above others and engage in unsavory and dangerous activities. 3. YOU MUST KNOW that the 7-year itch has gotten younger, and like your car, you must invest in attention and maintenance from the moment you begin to love. If you slack off, your mate may feel abandoned and act out, particularly if s/he is insecure. 4. YOU MUST KNOW that despite the screaming headlines of infidelity from Christie Brinkley's husband, Madonna, A-Rod, former Governor Eliot Spitzer, and more, there are still 2.5 million weddings each year in the U.S. The industry spends $40 - $70 BILLION annually, as people still opt for marriage and monogamy! 5. YOU MUST KNOW that the one you love is the one you'll leave. The qualities you found endearing at first can eventually wear on you: the careful money manager is now seen as a tightwad; the powerful mate is now seen as controlling. Recognize what originally turned you on, and continue to embrace it. 6. YOU MUST KNOW that the fear of lovelessness is real. The only way around that is to love yourself unconditionally so you can project to others how they can love you. 7. YOU MUST KNOW that you can unlearn the behaviors that haven't served you. After a betrayal, 65% of mates stay together, and with guidance, build a stronger union. Of the 35% who split, most question why they waited so long. 8. YOU MUST KNOW how to recognize relationship Red Flags when you see them-and leave skid marks beside the people who don't enhance YOU. 9. YOU MUST KNOW that there are 4 coping skills for dealing with a betrayer: avoidance, coercion, soothing, and confrontation-the last of which is the ONLY one that can really heal your woes. 10. YOU MUST KNOW that you have the power to mend or to end your suffering. The only question is whether you are ready and willing. ARE YOU?

Signs of a Cheater - How to Know If Your Partner is Being Unfaithful With You

Cheating seems to be something that is happening more and more as time passes by. It has almost become a trend. You are part of the norm if you or someone else has cheated. Unfortunately it has caused a whirlwind of devastating results, and it seems that there is more hurt, conflict and dysfunction going around then ever before. Cheating isn't just a sexual thing. It can be done in the form of satisfying emotional needs. Just through friendship, if your partner seeks emotional fulfillment through another person this is just as much cheating as connecting physically. Whatever your case may be, it is important to know if your partner is being unfaithful to you. Here are the following signs. Signs Of An Intimate Encounter- This is the most easiest to identify. If your partner frequently leaves the room to answer calls, distances themselves from you regularly, if they are more confrontational and irritable than usual, or if they have a peculiar odor. Know that any of these are possible signs that your partner is being unfaithful. You need to look into this more carefully, and you can do so by becoming very inquisitive with them. Ask them a lot of questions and make it clear that you are on to something. They will probably avoid answering, by making a lot of excuses or constantly changing the subject. You should not let this go unexamined. Take all the measures possible to get to the bottom of this. Look For Hints Of Intimate Conversation- This can take form in the way of texting, emails, phone calls at weird hours, cyberchatting, letters. This requires some detective work to determine whether in fact your partner is engaging in one of these cheating activities. The good thing is that you have technology on your side. There are a variety of tools available to take all the guesswork out of any means of communication that uses electronics. For cell phones, you have "phone detective" which gathers all deleted messages, numbers, contacts, etc. You can use this to figure out whether or not your partner had any intimate call behind your back. You can use "message logging software" for you computer which records all activities that take place on it. If your partner is having late night chat sessions, or webcam chats, you will have access to all of their activities, through the software. And the most simple easy-to-use program is the "reverse phone lookout" All you have to do here is enter the number of the person you suspect, and you will have all the personal information for this number. Now That You Have All The Tools- You will be able to get to the bottom of this now. If in fact they are cheating, don't let it bring you down. Your partner should be pitied for doing things in such a uncaring, deceptive way. They have obviously no standards, and this is not your problem to worry about.

Get Tips on Fixing a Broken Relationship

When it comes to useful tips on fixing a broken relationship one of the things we hear all the time is that couples need to work on how they communicate. That may sound weird to a lot of people, they may think: we talk all the time. But talking and communicating may not be the same thing. It's important that you both learn how to listen to the other person too. But even this isn't enough, since it's very easy to hear what you want to hear and not what is being said. It's also easy for the person who is talking to not express themselves clearly which can open the door to misunderstandings. For all these reasons, and the myriad of ways your communication can go awry (without either of your realizing what is going on) it's often best to get an outside source to help the two of you learn better ways of communicating. This outside source can be a trained therapist who can teach you new techniques and allow you to 'practice' on new and better ways of expressing yourself and hearing what the other person is really saying. Again, this may sound weird, but think about it for a minute. Haven't you ever had an occasion where you were talking to your partner and you asked them if they wanted to do something and they said 'yes', but you could tell by their tone, the way they held their head, or other body language cues that the real answer was 'no'? I know that happens all the time with me and my partner, and I'll bet you can remember it happening to you too, if you try. This is a classic example of poor communicating. In this case I'm not hearing what they say but I'm hearing what they mean, they are the ones who aren't clearly communicating what they really want. This is a small and unimportant example, but what do you think happens in relationships when this type of miscommunication happens all the time, with big important subjects as well as small inconsequential things? That's why most couples who want to work on their relationship need to target their communication skills first. If you and your partner aren't comfortable with (or don't have the money for) talking to a therapist, there are many wonderful self help books around that can help you fix the problems in your relationship. You can easily get some online, and many of them are sold as ebooks so you can download them immediately. You can also go to your local library and get them for free, or your local bookstore. The choice is yours, but it's nice to have a choice! If you want to work on your relationship I highly recommend you start with these tips on fixing a broken relationship since communication (or lack thereof) is one of the biggest problems any couple will face and it's often tough to spot or even realize that's what the problem is. Save Your Relationship with the 21 Basic Laws Of Successful Relationships.Click Here!

Are You Ready For Your Ideal Relationship?

What does it take to be ready for a new relationship? Some people have a tendency to jump into a new relationship too soon wondering why it doesn't work out for them in the end. While others let the fear of intimacy take over and keep themselves single saying they are not ready. This article will outline three major points of what it takes to be ready and hopefully give you an idea of where you stand. This is a good question, what does it take to be ready for a relationship? How do you know if you are ready? Chances are that if you meet someone you really like before you're ready for a commitment, your relationship will not work out. Most likely one of the two things will happen: you will either leave the relationship because you're not ready to commit or this person will leave you because she or he doesn't quite feel the same about you. In other words, you can't be fully available to anyone until you are ready, therefore you will most likely attract unavailable partners. The good news is that you can prevent this from happening and you can create your ideal relationship by learning how to become emotionally available to yourself and therefore get yourself ready. To be ready for your next healthy loving relationship you need three things. One, you need to be at piece with all your feelings about all your past relationships. Two, you need to know what you want in your next relationship and finally, accept yourself as being good enough for the kind of person you wish to attract. Now lets get into more details about this. How can you reach closure with all your previous relationships? I can tell you right now that the biggest blocks that will surely stop you from attracting your soul mate is still having strong feelings for someone in your past. Whether you are actually still in love with your ex or not, you may still have resentments, unresolved anger, guild or blame - any feelings, positive or negative will only indicate that you still have feelings. You may be able to attract someone new, but you will not be able to be fully available to this person. Getting closure doesn't have to involve contact with your ex. A closure is something that has to come from within you and all you need is yourself and your willingness to let go. More importantly, you need to forgive yourself and forgive your ex for what happened or did not happen. Now that you have put your past behind you, let's look into your future. What kind of relationship do you wish to attract? Saying, "someone whom I would love, who would also love me," is not enough. You need to be more specific about what you need, what works well for you and what does not work with your personality. Most people think they know what they want when they see it, but it doesn't work this way. You have to know what you want first, then you will be able to see it. Until you know exactly what you want, you will be attracting emotionally unavailable men or women who will only meet your needs partially but not completely. Though it is important to be physically attracted to your mate, don't get too hung up on physical characteristics. You want to be open, not controlling. Sometimes we have tendencies to diminish or limit ourselves when we talk about what we want because we don't believe we can have it. When it comes to love, the last thing you want to do is limit yourself. Love has no limits and neither should your ability to attract your ideal relationship. Don't settle for anything less than what you want or deserve. My Healthy Relationship. Created By World Renowned Hypnotherapist Steve G. Jones, My Healthy Relationship Is Designed To Help You Enhance Any Relationship. This Is An Audio Program Consisting Of 4 Modules And A Self Hypnosis Session.Click Here!